Bad People, Good People
"Why Bad People Exist On Earth"
Well...
This question always kept spinning in my head for almost ten years.
Such a longgg time....
-_______-"
I kept asking to a lot of people and everyone give me an aswer that never satisfied me.
One of them answer me with a very clasical advise like..
"There is always bad people in world, that's why we need to be a good people who can conquer world"
Ta ta da... Now you know why spiderman, batman and all man exist
*LOL*
After ten years on a mission of finding my answer, I just got it last six months.
I met someone who really wise enough to answer my stupid question.
(I really respect her. I need a lot of courage to ask her about my question. I really need the answer at that time -I was stress because I found everyone in my circle was not a good person at that time-)
When I asked her my question, She said :
"Vidi, who are you can judge someone bad or good ?"
I'm so speechless at that time, and gave a blank face to her question.
She said again :
"I personally trying my best to not judge others for every act they made, I always try to know the reason behind their act first. I need to know their background first."
I need almost three months to proceed this.
Thanks to my small brain.
-_______-"
She generously give me all the book that I need to navigate me to the answer that I need.
Now I called her : Book Fairy, because she gave me a lot of (literally lot of) books for me.
*HAPPY*
Not only book, She also gave her time for me.
Whenever she have time, we will discuss and talked about lot of things
Sometimes, you donnt need someone who point their finger to you and said you are wrong.
You just need someone who can help you to find your answer by give all the material that you need to find it and the most essential part was time to be with him/her when they try to find the solution.
Anyway...
It's just prolog...
*LOL*
Well...
Now the main part...
This what I Learned.
I Learned that : There are no bad people on earth.
This statement come with this reason :
1. Just like My Book Fairy told me : Who am I can judge other.
I can not judge other, simply because there's must be a reason for everything.
Every act that everyone made must be have a reason.
Either they're aware for that reason or they don't aware because the reason is coming from their subconscious.
No matter what it is, there is a reason for everything.
We need to know the reason before we start to analysis it.
We must know the background to get a comprehensive understanding.
But, even we might know everything and get better understanding.
It doesnt mean what we think was the right/most true.
Since only God who know what is inside human heart, we never know it.
There is a limit on human, that's why only God who can judge human.
2. Different Knowledge and Experience
My judgment is based on what I know (my experience and level of experience).
It's very subjective.
I realize that I can not force my opinion/judgement to others since every people have different knowledge and experience.
Not everyone have a same path off life.
Everyone have their purpose who coming with a different pack of lesson from God.
It's personalize made by God.
We are simply different.
Your lesson is different with me.
I need to learn about leadership when I'm teenager, but maybe you need to learn this at your very young age.
Different.
Everyone is different.
Also everyone ability to learned is different, their pace, their time also different.
Nowdays.
Whenever I failed to understand why some people do what they do.
To know better about them.
I try to look deeper to the level of their knowledge and experience.
This will bring up my empathy to them and made everything more easier.
3. Lesson Learned
I just realize for this past week that actually my lesson for this issue was lesson that God want me to learn since eight years ago.
*LOL*
But I failed to understand that this was one of my lesson.
That's why I dont push my self to learn.
What I aware that there is something in my mind and heart that unsolved.
Eight years ago, God sent me to the place that very scary (for me) to learned this lesson.
People on politics was ...
well you know unpredictable..
Rather than learned, I instead run from this kind of people.
I Spend my time for almost six years without learn anything -__-"
Well just like everyone and everyquote said....
because nowdays people learn from quote not from book anymore
-_______-"
You will never go to The Next Level, if you dont finish your lesson.
and tadaaaaa
I found this lesson again at my current job
*LOL*
Long Story Short.....
Thanks God !!! I learned !!!
Finally after eight years I Graduate from my lesson.
*YIHAAA*
Cannt wait to graduate from another lesson which I just know from my friends two days ago.
Really excited for whatever that will happen.
I end this blog by this:
Life is a pack of lesson, dont waste your time by become ignorance, just full conscius at anytime to learn every lesson that God give to you.
This question always kept spinning in my head for almost ten years.
Such a longgg time....
-_______-"
I kept asking to a lot of people and everyone give me an aswer that never satisfied me.
One of them answer me with a very clasical advise like..
"There is always bad people in world, that's why we need to be a good people who can conquer world"
Ta ta da... Now you know why spiderman, batman and all man exist
-_______-"
Maybe for some people my question was very simple and maybe they think like
"what the heck ! why this girl gave me a very stupid question"*LOL*
After ten years on a mission of finding my answer, I just got it last six months.
I met someone who really wise enough to answer my stupid question.
(I really respect her. I need a lot of courage to ask her about my question. I really need the answer at that time -I was stress because I found everyone in my circle was not a good person at that time-)
When I asked her my question, She said :
"Vidi, who are you can judge someone bad or good ?"
I'm so speechless at that time, and gave a blank face to her question.
She said again :
"I personally trying my best to not judge others for every act they made, I always try to know the reason behind their act first. I need to know their background first."
I need almost three months to proceed this.
Thanks to my small brain.
-_______-"
Now I called her : Book Fairy, because she gave me a lot of (literally lot of) books for me.
*HAPPY*
Whenever she have time, we will discuss and talked about lot of things
Sometimes, you donnt need someone who point their finger to you and said you are wrong.
You just need someone who can help you to find your answer by give all the material that you need to find it and the most essential part was time to be with him/her when they try to find the solution.
Anyway...
It's just prolog...
*LOL*
Well...
Now the main part...
This what I Learned.
I Learned that : There are no bad people on earth.
This statement come with this reason :
1. Just like My Book Fairy told me : Who am I can judge other.
I can not judge other, simply because there's must be a reason for everything.
Every act that everyone made must be have a reason.
Either they're aware for that reason or they don't aware because the reason is coming from their subconscious.
No matter what it is, there is a reason for everything.
We need to know the reason before we start to analysis it.
We must know the background to get a comprehensive understanding.
But, even we might know everything and get better understanding.
It doesnt mean what we think was the right/most true.
Since only God who know what is inside human heart, we never know it.
There is a limit on human, that's why only God who can judge human.
2. Different Knowledge and Experience
My judgment is based on what I know (my experience and level of experience).
It's very subjective.
I realize that I can not force my opinion/judgement to others since every people have different knowledge and experience.
Not everyone have a same path off life.
Everyone have their purpose who coming with a different pack of lesson from God.
It's personalize made by God.
We are simply different.
Your lesson is different with me.
I need to learn about leadership when I'm teenager, but maybe you need to learn this at your very young age.
Different.
Everyone is different.
Also everyone ability to learned is different, their pace, their time also different.
Nowdays.
Whenever I failed to understand why some people do what they do.
To know better about them.
I try to look deeper to the level of their knowledge and experience.
This will bring up my empathy to them and made everything more easier.
3. Lesson Learned
I just realize for this past week that actually my lesson for this issue was lesson that God want me to learn since eight years ago.
*LOL*
That's why I dont push my self to learn.
What I aware that there is something in my mind and heart that unsolved.
Eight years ago, God sent me to the place that very scary (for me) to learned this lesson.
People on politics was ...
well you know unpredictable..
Rather than learned, I instead run from this kind of people.
I Spend my time for almost six years without learn anything -__-"
Well just like everyone and everyquote said....
because nowdays people learn from quote not from book anymore
-_______-"
You will never go to The Next Level, if you dont finish your lesson.
and tadaaaaa
I found this lesson again at my current job
*LOL*
Long Story Short.....
Thanks God !!! I learned !!!
Finally after eight years I Graduate from my lesson.
*YIHAAA*
Cannt wait to graduate from another lesson which I just know from my friends two days ago.
Really excited for whatever that will happen.
I end this blog by this:
Life is a pack of lesson, dont waste your time by become ignorance, just full conscius at anytime to learn every lesson that God give to you.
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